A Guide to Shameless Happiness (A Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy Booklet Book 1)

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Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy REBT is a practical, sensible, and effective approach that will help you master your thoughts and think constructively, allowing you to reach your goals and find happiness sooner. Written in plain English, A Guide to Shameless Happiness shows you the easiest and fastest way to get started. You'll learn how to use your reasoning powers to achieve personal happiness and reach your long-term and short-term goals.

A Guide to Shameless Happiness

You'll learn the number one, psychotherapeutic technique — used by psychologists and therapists all over the world — so you can react to events in a rational and realistic manner. You can use the methods described in A Guide to Shameless Happiness to overcome a range of common problems and to help yourself in a variety of areas personal growth, including worry, anger, fear, unassertiveness, guilt, depression, weight control, and self-motivation.

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To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up. To ask other readers questions about A Guide to Shameless Happiness , please sign up. Be the first to ask a question about A Guide to Shameless Happiness. Lists with This Book. This book is not yet featured on Listopia. Community Reviews. Showing Rating details. More filters. Sort order. May 02, Michelle Moody rated it really liked it. Good suggestions Will try to apply them. Also trying to apply this technique with my Aspergers son. Last section seemed a little repetitive.

Dec 27, Carlton Brown rated it really liked it. A quick overview of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy as developed by Albert Ellis to help overcome unhealthy negative emotions and self-defeating behaviors which undermine ones happiness. Invariably our beliefs either exaggerate or make unreasonable demands and once you challenge these then you undermine B and therefore your emotional reaction dissipates without having to try reprogram your responses in futility.

A great introduction to the REBT system for changing counterproductive emotive responses. Jan 31, Senthil Kumaran rated it really liked it. Simple and a straightforward book on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy. It is written by a practitioner Will Ross, who lost his life recently while battling cancer in Worth a read if you are new to REBT. Mary rated it it was amazing Apr 07, Joe rated it liked it Apr 15, Laura rated it really liked it Aug 13, Aditya Korde rated it liked it Mar 16, Angela Michels rated it liked it Aug 23, Gloria rated it it was amazing Feb 16, Norbert Lochmann rated it did not like it Jan 07, Juan Chamorro Pons rated it liked it Oct 09, We want to be happy whether we are alone or with others; we want to get along with others—especially with one or two close friends; we want to be well informed and educated; we want a good job with good pay; and we want to enjoy our leisure time.

Albert Ellis' Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT)- Daniel Man of Reason

Of course life doesn't always allow us to have what we want; our goal of being happy is often thwarted by the "slings and arrows of outrageous fortune. To illustrate this, Dr. Ellis developed a simple ABC format to teach people how their beliefs cause their emotional and behavioral responses: A. Something happens. You have a belief about the situation. You have an emotional reaction to the belief. For example: A.

Your employer falsely accuses you of taking money from her purse and threatens to fire you. She's a bitch! You feel angry.

If you had held a different belief, your emotional response would have been different: A. That would be unbearable. You feel anxious. It is B that causes C.

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In the first example, it is not your employer's false accusation and threat that make you angry; it is your belief that she has no right to accuse you, and that she is a bitch. In the second example, it is not her accusation and threat that make you anxious; it is the belief that you must not lose your job, and that losing your job would be unbearable.

The Three Basic Musts Although we all express ourselves differently, according to Albert Ellis and REBT, the beliefs that upset us are all variations of three common irrational beliefs. Each of the three common irrational beliefs contains a demand, either about ourselves, other people, or the world in general.

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These beliefs are known as " The Three Basic Musts. Other people must treat me considerately, fairly and kindly, and in exactly the way I want them to treat me. If they don't, they are no good and they deserve to be condemned and punished. I must get what I want, when I want it; and I must not get what I don't want. It's terrible if I don't get what I want, and I can't stand it.

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The first belief often leads to anxiety, depression, shame, and guilt. The second belief often leads to rage, passive-aggression and acts of violence.

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The third belief often leads to self-pity and procrastination. It is the demanding nature of the beliefs that causes the problem. Less demanding, more flexible beliefs lead to healthy emotions and helpful behaviors Disputing The goal of REBT is to help people change their irrational beliefs into rational beliefs. Changing beliefs is the real work of therapy and is achieved by the therapist disputing the client's irrational beliefs. For example, the therapist might ask, "Why must you win everyone's approval? Insight Albert Ellis and REBT contend that although we all think irrationally from time to time, we can work at eliminating the tendency.

It's unlikely that we can ever entirely eliminate the tendency to think irrationally, but we can reduce the frequency, the duration, and the intensity of our irrational beliefs by developing three insights: We don't merely get upset but mainly upset ourselves by holding inflexible beliefs. No matter when and how we start upsetting ourselves, we continue to feel upset because we cling to our irrational beliefs.